Monday, April 6, 2015

Don't Be That Guy

Don’t be that guy...who spends more time in front of the mirror than his girlfriend does (it comes off as vanity)

Don’t be that guy...who appears to be too desperate…if you are constantly clinging to her and constantly making it seem like you can't live without her, you may be doing too much. There’s a thin line between loving to be with her and being needy.

Don’t be that guy...who is bossy and egoistic…being the guy doesn't mean you always have the better idea. Don’t shove your ideas down her throat…rub minds and pick the better option

Don’t be that guy...who's rude, cocky and proud…you are not doing her a favor by dating her. If you think you are too good for her, move on.

Don’t be that guy...who's a baby, whines about everything, gets upset at the slightest provocation, cries a lot

Don’t be that guy...who's a "mama’s boy"…we love our mothers but a mama’s boy is one who wants his woman to be like his mama and/or runs to mama for everything.

Don’t be that guy...who's a pushover…a guy that cannot think or make a decision for himself. A guy that always wants anything his girlfriend wants. A guy that will never say NO. A guy that cannot stand up for himself…gentleness is a good virtue but it’s totally different from being a ‘door mat’.

Don’t be that guy...who's controlling…she lived her life before you came on the scene, stop acting like she cannot live without you. We all want to feel like someone needs us in their life, but there are times we take it to the extreme.

Don’t be that guy...who's awkward…impossible to figure out/understand, impossible to please. Impossible to talk to, hardly laughs, Never starts a conversation

Don’t be that guy...who's always complaining. Picking fights over the littlest issues. Arguing with any opinion that’s different from his. Always seeing the negative in everything.

Don’t be that guy...That’s a blabbermouth…a man should know how and when to keep his mouth shut
The Bible says (…Act like men and be courageous; grow in strength! – 1 Corinthians 16:13)
 
 


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