The Power of Agreement in Marriage

"Can two walk together, except they be agreed?" – Amos 3:3

Marriage thrives on agreement, not just surface-level consent but a deep, spiritual harmony that binds two hearts and minds toward a shared purpose. Agreement in marriage isn’t just about peace; it’s about power.

Scripture reveals this power when it says one can chase a thousand, but two can put ten thousand to flight (Deuteronomy 32:30). This exponential effect of agreement is a divine principle that magnifies our efforts, turning small victories into monumental triumphs. When a husband and wife align in vision, faith, and purpose, they create a force that’s not only unshakable but also unstoppable.

Yet, this unity is often under attack. The devil understands the stakes of agreement. He knows that a divided house cannot stand (Mark 3:25). He chips away at unity through misunderstandings, unmet expectations, and unchecked offenses. These small cracks, if left unaddressed, widen into chasms that separate hearts.

But agreement doesn’t mean the absence of conflict; it means the presence of intentionality. It’s choosing to prioritize the "we" over "me," even when it’s uncomfortable. It’s committing to reconciliation when emotions run high and seeking God’s wisdom when clarity feels distant.

Here are some intentional steps we can take to realign our marriage with God’s purpose. They will help in areas where agreement feels challenging. They will also actively protect our unity/bond from small, unnoticed attacks.

1. Pray Together – Make prayer a daily habit, asking God to align your hearts and minds. Pray for each other, pray with each other. It's hard to stay mad at someone you pray for/with.

2. Communicate Openly – Address small misunderstandings before they grow into conflicts. Nip things in the bud.

3. Stay 'Woke'– Recognize the enemy’s tactics and choose forgiveness over bitterness.

Unity is the glue that holds your marriage together and the fuel that propels it forward. Walk in agreement, knowing that together, you are stronger, more powerful, and equipped for every good work.

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